It’s always easier to talk angrily than patiently but…..

Me: Noelleeeeee πŸ˜’πŸ˜’πŸ˜’ what happened?

Noelle: πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ˜¬πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… (act Bodoh smiling)

Me: Tell mama what happened? πŸ˜’πŸ˜’

Noelle: It broke! πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Me: Who broke it?

Noelle: Me! 😬😬😬

(Wa my girl so honest πŸ™„πŸ™„)

Me: How did it break? πŸ™„πŸ™„

Noelle: 😬😬😬😬 (no reply)

Me: You step on it?

Noelle: NoπŸ˜…πŸ˜… (still smiley face)

Me: Then?

Noelle: 😬😬😬 (no reply)

Me: πŸ˜’ You know hoh, if someone tell lies, mama will use the ‘spanar’ to remove the teeth πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„ So, how did it break?

Noelle: Sit on it! 😬😬😬

Me: πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘πŸ˜‘ ok, next time if anything spoilt please let me know and don’t just leave it like it is!

Noelle: Ok! πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

Me: Go dress up then! (She just finished her bath when I spoke to her)
For me, it is more important for her to tell me the truth than getting angry over the spoilt little cabinet! Hope she will still trust me (rather than fear me) to tell me anything if she runs into ‘trouble’ as she grows up! 
And hope she learns that certain things cannot be sat on or stepped on or else it will break – though certain things can be fix in life!

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